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IF WE HAVEN'T MET YET:

HEY, I'M ASHLEY!

For most of my life, not feeling good enough was the baseline I operated from.

It showed up everywhere. In how hard I worked to earn approval. In how small I made myself to avoid being too much. In the way I learned to hold space for everyone except myself. I became really skilled at being the person others could rely on while quietly losing touch with what I actually needed.

I thought the path to feeling worthy was through being useful. Through fixing. Through staying steady no matter what. If I could just be good enough at taking care of everyone else, maybe I would finally feel okay inside my own skin.

That belief ran my life for decades.

I built an entire career around emotional healing. I spent over twenty years sitting with people through their deepest pain, helping them see the patterns that kept them stuck, guiding them back to themselves. And the whole time, I was living inside the same stories I was helping them release.

The irony was not lost on me once I finally saw it.

What changed was not some big epiphany. It was the slow, uncomfortable recognition that I was exhausted from proving myself. From managing how I showed up. From editing out the parts of me that felt too big, too messy, too inconvenient. I realized I had spent so much energy trying to be acceptable that I had forgotten what it felt like to just be me.

Once I saw that pattern, everything shifted. Not overnight. But steadily. I stopped trying to fix myself into someone more palatable and started releasing the belief that I needed fixing in the first place.

What emerged was not a different woman. It was the one who had been waiting underneath all that striving.

Now, my life looks completely different. I travel constantly. I play pickleball with the kind of obsession that makes me laugh at myself. I bring women together because I know how much lighter everything feels when you are not carrying it alone. I am drawn to practices that help you feel something shift inside your body, not just your mind. Breathwork. Yoga. Plant medicine. Parts work. The kind of conversations that leave you feeling more connected to yourself.

I care deeply about creating spaces where women can stop performing and start being real. Where you do not have to prove you are worthy of being there. Where the work is about remembering who you are, not becoming someone else.

That is what In Her Power is built on. It is not about fixing yourself or learning to manage better. It is about reclaiming the authority over your own life that you gave away without even realizing it.

I am also a contributing author in EmpowHer. My chapter, From Ashes to Wings: What I Had to Release to Rise, walks through the internal shifts that changed everything for me. Not the dramatic moments, but the quiet ones. The ones that happen when you finally stop believing you have to earn your place in your own life.

If any of this lands, you are probably the woman I work with.

Maybe you're the woman who's done a lot of work, understands herself deeply, and still feels like something isn't quite lining up. The one who's capable, insightful, and quietly exhausted from trying to be better instead of simply being true.

This space is for you.

www.inherpowerment.com

 SPEAKING + COLLABORATIONS

I'm available for speaking engagements, workshops, podcasts, retreats, and collaborations. I love stages where I can bring depth and realness together. Where we can have the big conversations and still laugh, where transformation doesn't have to feel heavy, and where women walk away feeling more like themselves, not less.

If you're looking for someone who can hold depth, speak truth, and keep things genuinely human, let's talk.